Holden, over at The GiveWell Blog, hit my #1 rant topic square on the head the other day in Giving: like heroin, but more expensive ...
I think that giving because of what it does for you -- whether you call it happiness or fulfillment or what -- is crass and misguided and yuck.
Sorry Holden, but you're way out to lunch on this one.
For one thing, you're claiming a lot more knowledge of other people's motives than you can possibly have. Sure, some people have entirely selfish motives for giving, and thus give badly. But who are you (or anyone else) to make that judgment about someone else's giving decisions?
Talk to a few donors, and you might find your pronouncements a little harder to make.
If you want to get really annoyed, take a look into "prosperity theology," a twisted belief that says if you give lots of money -- generally to a specific televangelist -- you'll get rich. Time covered it about a year ago in Does God Want You To Be Rich? But even there, I don't think any of us should feel confident that we have a lock on someone else's motives. I don't know about you, but I don't even fully understand my own motives, much less theirs.
It's too bad people don't live up to your high standards, that they don't approach their charitable giving with the rigor you require. But seriously man, is that realistic? Would it even be desirable?
Donors are who they are. They know what they know, which may be different from what you know. They have to start somewhere. I don't think you're saying you'd keep them out of the party until they reach your exalted state. But you are sneering at and belittling their unenlightened gifts, which are still much, much better than the best cheeseburger ever made.
Either way, fewer needs get met, fewer people grow, less positive change happens.
But here's the most important part: you should note that the jabber you're getting sick of -- it's not aimed at donors. Take another look at those blog posts: They aren't saying Hey donors, you should give more cuz it'll make you feel good! This lobe of discussion is aimed at and happening among fundraisers. It's an important discussion because so many fundraisers labor under the delusion that giving is harmful to donors. This delusion makes them do ineffective and disrespectful fundraising. It hobbles the ability of hundreds of nonprofits to do what they're here to do. It's a millstone around the neck of our industry.
That's why I'm spending an entire post arguing with one man's attitude about giving. I try not to worry about what other people believe. But the belief that there's something wrong with donors who don't think or act like us (the smart, good, aware, evolved, or whatever people) is flat-out poisonous.
That's all. I'll go back to my cell now.
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